Authored by two late-diagnosed neurodivergent women and the founders of the fast-growing online community @IAmPayingAttention, 'How Not to Fit In' is a handbook-meets-rallying cry. Foregrounding women's experiences with autism and ADHD, it explores the journey women go on to discovering and accepting that they are neurodivergent, why getting diagnosis can be so fraught and gendered, and how to navigate a world which centres neurotypical brains in the realms of relationships, careers, friendships and finances.